Even if you start parenting totally green–without any training or input, the job is so hard that you will inevitably seek advice from facebook, articles, blogs, books, friends–or other parents who seem successful at it.
Probably no one admits it out loud, but all of us are looking for tips that will WORK. In other words, we’re looking for guidance that guarantees that our little violators will begin behaving, begin showing respect, and not embarrass us in public. What if we’re majoring on the minors? What if something else matters most for Christian parenting? I found Paul Tripp’s article riveting–and wish I could get a do over! Get your Bible out and give this a read. http://www.desiringgod.org/articles/you-don-t-need-more-parenting-advice.
Occasionally I use my phone’s YouVersion Bible app but mostly just if my paper Bible isn’t within reach. In private worship time, study, or preaching, I’m all paper except for comparing translations. Admittedly, I’m old school but I think there are some good reasons for being slow to abandon paper. Several months ago the elders started a conversation about whether digital Bibles are a plus or a minus. We also discussed the concern others have that putting Scripture on the screens Sunday mornings may be reducing a person’s interest in his/her own Bible, in bringing it to worship, even in reading it. That discussion is ongoing.
One elder said he is now bringing his paper Bible for worship more often after being digital for some time. Notes are more readily made–and remembered/reused. A few days ago I read the following by a Canadian pastor who is also leaving digital more often in favor of paper. His 5 reasons are worthwhile considering: http://www.churchleaders.com/pastors/pastor-articles/252327-five-reasons-im-starting-read-paper-bible.html?utm_source=newsletter&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=clnewsletter&utm_content=CL+Daily+20150420+4/16/2015+4:34:20+PM.
Yesterday at the church’s Welcome Luncheon for new people, I introduced my wife and said we’ve been married 40 years. The person next to me said that in today’s world that’s really saying something. “Thanks for setting an example.”I still fumble with compliments so instead of saying thank you I pointed to my wife, the real hero of our relationship. And she is. But both of us absolutely love being married, and being married to each other. In fact, I might go so far as to say that our marriage is euphoric.
I’m having trouble stopping right there. I’m tempted to add all kinds of qualifiers like “we have our problems too,” or “it’s not a perfect marriage,” or “we’re human”. But those are not what conveys the general nature of our relationship, nor how we think of it. I want unmarried people taunted by an endless drumbeat of bad news and bad reviews of marriage to grasp that in the natural world, NOTHING CAN COMPARE to marriage. The fact that marriage can produce such devastating sorrow when it’s breaking or broken, is only more proof that its potential to offer couples delirious joy, is boundless.
I was thrilled to read Biola professor Rick Langer’s magnificent defense of–and elevation of marriage in the current issue of EFCA’s online ‘zine “EFCA TODAY”. Click here.
Tomorrow is the third message of six at Keystone about how we spend our time. This one is on our leisure time pastimes. I’ve been kind of dreading it because I love leisure and have been wondering what I’m going to say about it! I love a good book, a suspenseful movie, a quiet evening on the patio with a fire blazing. Because these are not intrinsically bad things, the question caroming around my soul is not, “When are you going to stop?”, but “How much do you love it all?”
The following excerpt on leisure time from Treven Wax’s book, Holy Subversion: Allegiance to Christ in an Age of Rivals, is disturbingly penetrating. Bring your steel tips. http://www.christianity.com/print/11628696/