Getting Dressed for the Gospel’s Sake

clothing-choicesEmail or in person, It’s always awkward.  It’s usually in summer.  It’s usually a woman.  98% of the time, she’s over 60.  (For the record, so am I.)

“Pastor Keith, don’t you think ______ was revealing too much this morning?”

“Pastor Keith, you ought to preach on how women should dress.”

“Pastor Keith, with how some of these women at church dress, my husband’s problem with lust is worse at church!”  (Does he never watch TV?  Go to the beach?  Walk around the mall?)

The problem is not that she’s wrong, it’s that the solution is not as simple as preaching how a woman should dress.  I have vivid memories as a boy of horrific sermons on dress dripping with legalism that never mentioned the heart.  And frankly, as a pastor I am keenly mindful of much more pressing issues to address from the pulpit.

But what we wear does matter to Jesus; what we wear matters for Jesus.  While we cannot say modest dress is exclusively a female issue, it is especially a female issue for two reasons: 1) on the scale of anatomies that look good, a woman is a 10 and a man is a 4 (yeah, yeah, some of us are 2’s!), and 2) a woman’s form is a powerful magnet to men’s eyes whereas the male form doesn’t typically have the same effect on women.

A couple of weeks ago NBA superstar wife Ayesha Curry tweeted some interesting words on modest clothing that sparked a twitter debate.  See Kim Cash Tate’s excellent take on it over at Desiring God.

Living with the Terror Epidemic

 Add San Bernardino to the list of terrorized cities: Peshawar, Maiduguri, Tunis, Garissa (University), Jalalabad, Kukawa, Sana’a, Baghdad, Paris.  The number of civilian dead is in the thousands.  And that’s just this year.
It’s enough to make parents barricade their children in their home, and build a survival shelter.  God has a word for us: DO NOT BE AFRAID.
Pastor Scotty Smith of Franklin, Tennessee wrote the following after last month’s Paris massacre.
Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for him; fret not yourself over the one who prospers in his way, over the man who carries out evil devices! Refrain from anger, and forsake wrath! Fret not yourself; it tends only to evil. For the evildoers shall be cut off, but those who wait for the Lord shall inherit the land. In just a little while, the wicked will be no more; though you look carefully at his place, he will not be there. But the meek shall inherit the land and delight themselves in abundant peace. Psalm 37:7-11 (ESV)
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Dear heavenly Father, another day of terror-making darkness, evil-doing madness, and life-taking sadness. How long, O Lord, how Lord before you send Jesus back to eradicate all evil? How long before the wicked will be no more? How much longer is “just a little while”?
It’s hard not to fret. It’s hard not to feel fearful and angry when women and children, the young and old are mercilessly slaughtered in the city of Paris; when restaurants, concert halls, and sports areas become the venue for the perversion of religion and the murder of your image bearers.
Father, we offer our prayer, not in self-righteous judgment, but as your weary children—longing for the Day when the knowledge of your glory will fill the earth as the waters cover the sea (Hab. 2:14)—when perfect peace will replace every expression of evil.
Until that Day, free us from all bitterness and a lust for revenge. Vengeance belongs to you, not to us. Make us warriors of peace and agents of hope. Our labors in the Lord are never in vain. The gospel of the kingdom will prevail. Defeated evil will be eradicated evil. The devil is filled with fury for he knows his time is short (Rev. 12:12). Make it much shorter, Father, much shorter.
Grant us wisdom to know what loving mercy, doing justice, and walking humbly with you looks like in Paris, and in our own communities. Replace our frets and fears with faith and trust, and our rage and wrath with patience and courage. So very Amen we pray, in Jesus’ triumphant and grace-full name.